Slow burn

The problem with having a few very hot dates and an almost summer fling is that you get all worked up, all hot and bothered, and then it's over. But the all worked up and all hot and bothered part isn't over. Hence, the problem.

The good part about a near miss is that it reminds you that not all guys find a woman who is expecting a baby (at a remote location) to be a turn-off. In fact, for some guys it's a turn-on (the whole independent, strong woman thing). And a near miss can remind you that some guys think you're hot - very hot. It's a reminder that you're still alive.

And so I'm trying to look at this strange near miss as a good thing. A thaw, a warm up, a slow burn. After all, there is still second session.